Have you ever felt gleeful about being a villain to your own child?
If you have, read on to find a like-minded mom. If you haven't, then read on to find out how you could feel so.....
If you have, read on to find a like-minded mom. If you haven't, then read on to find out how you could feel so.....
My dear Son,
I know you hate me some times and that exam
season is the time when this feeling of intense dislike and revenge overwhelms
you so much that I begin to falter, wondering if I am turning out to be another
‘Tiger Mom’. It is another story that ‘Tiger Mom’s aren’t really that bad as
they are made out to be. But then, that is a highly debatable topic, more so
since you are approaching the teen years.
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You want a break and so talk about the
library book that would heal your severely battered brain, what with the
onslaught of the trickiest problems you had to complete. I agree -
conditionally. “OK, but not more than half an hour. All those terrible
characters of your book seem to have greater control over you than you have on
them or even yourself when you spend too much time with them! Ugh! They’ll
wreak havoc on whatever you have learnt till now!”
Bolder after another hour of study after a
break with your story book that gives you a feeling that you deserve a pat on
your back, you ask for “TV time”.
I am about to give in when your sister
screams out, “I’ll watch my channel now!” I am happy in a way since I want you
to put in another hour, but I don’t show it and very diplomatically say, “OK,
Vini has not had an opportunity to watch TV today yet and anyway you’ll get to
watch it when she has her nap.
It’s just a matter of one more hour,
darling.” You don’t know whom to hate more – mother or sister and scowl at us.
Knowing you would be fuming and fretting in your room instead of focusing on
your books with your ears strained to pick up what is going on the screen, I
add quickly, feigning not to notice your scowl (the corners of my eyes keep
working) “I think if you get done by four, you could be in the playground
before others.” It seems to work and you go back satisfied with the deal.
Instead of TV time now, you are getting the liberty to be down earlier than you
expected.
My mind is furiously working on how to get
you back early from the playground (since I want you to do a revision before your
eyes get red-shot and you slip into a depression, thinking of how unfair life
is!). “Let us have mango syrup together as soon as you are back from the field!
Be back on time!” I yell as you finally earn your freedom and sprint your way
down the steps with the afternoon sun throwing strange patterns behind the
trees.
I know tomorrow it will dawn upon you that
you have put in more hours than you had intended. You will see through my
clever plans of today and hold me the culprit and extract extra “TV time”. I’ll
yield in easily for this is your last exam of the season and tomorrow is
another day.
As you will step into your teens, matters won’t be so easy for me.
The ball won’t be in my court quite often and my screams and snarls and promise
of your favourite dishes won’t work a fraction as well as now. Hatred for me
will only pile up and not vanish with steady inflow of chocolates and delicious
mango syrups in between study hours. You might even silently wish for
early freedom from this “monster” who happens to be your mother.
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The rest is in my book Rays and Rains (e-book available at a much lower price).
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